Saturday, January 14, 2012

The Rembrandt Exhibit

Today we went to the NC Museum of Art. F-I-N-E Art. Katherine's idea of art is the kind done with finger paints, or the masterpiece recently drawn on her bedroom wall, with marker. (I am a Mom eternally grateful for the invention of magic erasers.)

Off we go to see Rembrandt. Katherine and I chatted about what art was. Often it's combined with the word "crafts". In an effort to draw a comparison I resorted to comparing Rembrandt and a Pinkalicious book (Pinkie Promise) where Pinkalicious uses all of her friend's pink paint to paint a picture for their teacher. Enter:  Our basis for "art". Given my comparison, we thought it would be fun to look at the Rembrandts and see if we could find pink in them. Yeah yeah yeah... dark painter.  I know. Surprisingly though we found one piece with pink.  It was quite colorful too!!

To keep us occupied the rest of the time we played a matching game. As we walked in we received a little book with information on Rembrandt and some pictures of his work. We matched the pictures in the book to the paintings on the wall.  She found a match for every single painting! She did an AWESOME job. 

We also talked about the people in the paintings.  Lucretia, The Three Singers and of course, Jesus.  From the minute we walked in she saw a painting of a man and baby Jesus.  She yelled from across the room "Mommy! Look, there's baby Jesus!!" Not believing her at first we went over to check out the painting and... She was right.  It was Simeon with the Christ Child. Later we were looking for one of the pieces in the book and it too had an older Jesus.  She yelled as she found it from across the room "Mommy!!!! I FOUND JESUS!!!" Indeed baby. Indeed. =)

As we were leaving the exhibit a woman approached Katherine and I to tell us how wonderful she was in the exhibit.  She asked her what she learned today and Katherine responded telling her that Rembrandt was happy when he was young and cranky when he was older after he lost all of his dollars. :) Based on the "self portraits" we saw... I'd tend to agree. 
Younger (happier) Rembrandt
Older (Cranky) Rembrandt 

Maybe I didn't do too shabby in my art lesson today. ;) 

xo
Darlene

Friday, January 13, 2012

Orthodox Christmas

Last weekend we celebrated Orthodox Christmas. For the last 12 years I've celebrated Christmas, not on the 25th, as was the tradition in my youth, but rather on January 7th.

Over the years I've been asked many many questions about this.
  • Why do you celebrate Christmas two weeks later than everyone else?
  • Is it a different kind of Christmas? 
  • What kind of traditions do you have for your Christmas? 
Most ask with genuine curiosity.  I thought I'd share a little bit about Orthodox Christmas. I'll start with the questions.

Why do you celebrate Christmas two weeks later than everyone else?
Fair question. :) The Orthodox Church uses the Julian Calendar.  It is reported that the Julian Calendar was created in 45BC as a reform of the Roman Calendar.  The Gregorian Calendar is the calendar utilized in most countries.

The reason the Gregorian Calendar came into existence was because the Julian Calendar assumes each year is 365.25 days with every 4th year being a leap year.  The Julian calendar assumes that the vernal equinoxes is 365.25 days with every 4th year being a leap year.  The vernal equinox however is approximately 11 minutes shorter than that.  This results in an accumulated value of 3 days every four centuries. Thus a new calendar was created to save us from the 3 day error every 400 years. :)

The Orthodox Church over the years have relaxed their opinion on this.  A few years ago the Metropolitan of our diocese (similar to a Roman Catholic Cardinal in my opinion) indicated that the churches could elect which calendar to follow.  Many of the churches in our diocese still follow the Julian Calendar.  There are a few that have adopted the "new calendar" but there are many Priests and parishioners that are happy to continue using the traditional calendar of the church.

There are several other countries that still celebrate Christmas on the 7th so we aren't all alone! =)

Is it a different kind of Christmas?
This one is easy. Nope. It's the same Christmas everyone else celebrates. There's a Santa. Presents. Family. Fun. Good stuff.

We do however have the perk of getting Christmas goods at a discount since everyone else is "finished" with the holiday. ;)

What kind of traditions do you have for your Christmas?
The same as you do. On Christmas Eve there are church services and family dinners.  Christmas Eve is a day of fasting so there is no meat allowed.  Our traditional dinner is pirohi, stuffed cabbage, mushroom soup, palacinke (crepes), macaroni and cheese and shrimp. There's usually some other dishes that make the menu each year that aren't on that list, but those are the traditional ones on the table each year.

Santa arrived in Raleigh
The Aleksza tradition is to open presents on Christmas Eve.  This started (as the story is told by my hubby) when they were little.  They'd come home after Christmas Eve services and open presents.  This was primarily because there wasn't time enough to do so the next morning before Christmas Day services. As a parent of a 3 year old... It makes for an early morning to do it on Christmas Day! =) In our family we do a little bit of both.  On Christmas Eve we open presents from the immediate family.  Christmas night Santa comes and brings Katherine her presents.  She opens them on Christmas morning before church.  Of course, since we spend Christmas Eve/Day in NJ she doesn't get very many presents on Christmas morning.  Just a token or two from Santa with a promise of more to come when she gets back to Raleigh. I, for one, am grateful for Santa's willingness to come a few days later because it could be rather difficult to get all of Katherine's things back home on the plane. ;)

Why I love it... 
There a simplicity about the holiday being celebrated two weeks later that is lost with the commercialism of the 25th. Everyone else is "over" the holidays, including New Years, and has moved on.  So much so that this year there were no lights still up and on in our neighborhood after the New Year.  While this makes me sad, particularly because of the reason for the holiday and the seemingly forgotten arrival of the Wise Men at the Crib, it gives us a chance to revel in our own holiday spirit.  And get good bargains. ;)

In the next blog I'll tell you all about our holidays this year! 

Sunday, January 1, 2012

New Years Resolutions?

Nope. Not for this girl. I'm not a fan of them. It just seems like you're set up for failure.

Don't get me wrong, I'm all for personal goals. I just don't think they need to come in the form of 'resolutions'. Goals can be shorter in duration and iterative. Resolutions give a whole year to try to figure out whether you're going to succeed or not. And then you find yourself in October saying oh crap... I haven't done that yet. Then, more than likely, you think - well, it's too late now - so you don't do it.

So I've decided to start the year with a small # of goals for the first quarter of 2012.
  • I'd like to complete 200 miles of exercise. (biking and running)
  • I'd like to lose 8 of the pounds that I found during 2011. 
  • At least once a month I'd like to have a pajama party with my family.
  • At least once during the quarter I'd like to have a date night with my guy.
  • At least one weekend a month I'd like to target one day where we have nothing scheduled. Nothing except family fun time. =)
A couple of personal (health) goals mixed in with some family goals. Family & health will be my focus in 2012. 

If you choose to make some resolutions this year I wish you much luck in achieving them! 

Happy New Year! =)

Love,
Darlene