Friday, March 13, 2009

Sharing and Ouchies


On Tuesday I take Katherine into daycare like I usually do. We go in, chat, say hi to the other kids and play for a minute or so and then I leave. Except Tuesday, her teacher said... Katherine has been taking toys from the other kids while playing. HUH? I looked at her and said... Katherine!!!! We must share!! She smiled and laughed at me. Hm. Not sure she got the message. And alas, every morning I hug & kiss her, and whisper in her ear... "remember to share and be nice to others"... I thought I was getting through. Apparently not. The teacher said... We think it's because she's been so used to being the youngest and now she's one of the oldest. Huh. We'll need to work on that.

Today, we received our first "ouchie" note. Katherine got a little scratch on the back of her neck from one of the other kids. Being that earlier in the week I was told Katherine didn't share I immediately wondered if the other kid decided he/she was winning regardless. But alas, the teacher said another one of the kids tried to take her Paci and in the process she got scratched. Treatment applied: a warm cloth and TLC. All is well.

But that does bring me to... Is Katherine a bully? Yikes!!! She's one of the oldest but also one of the smallest. Riley, who is the cutest little boy I've ever seen, is a couple of months younger and is twice her size. (They dig one another... I think Jacob's out... Sorry Jake. She's moved on.) They get all gooey eyed every morning when they see each other. Very cute. And what's even better is I dig Riley. Daddy's not so pleased ... we're trying to break him in slowly to the whole boys thing.

The other new thing this week is Katherine can now go from laying on her back to sitting up by herself. It was a total shock. Stephen was upstairs with a case of the "vapors" (He didn't feel well - my little drama king) and Katherine and I were getting ready to leave when she "spit up" all over me and herself. (BTW - when does it stop being spit up and start being puke??) So we both had to change. I ran upstairs to get clothes for us both while she was playing on the floor and came back and she was sitting up. I was sure I didn't leave her that way - so I laid her back down again. She did it again!! Weeeee... I laid her back down again and grabbed the phone so I could take video. Excellent. Third time sitting up by herself... caught on video.

Pictures for the week:

http://picasaweb.google.com/daleksza/3808JustHangingOut#


http://picasaweb.google.com/daleksza/3809HangingOut#


http://picasaweb.google.com/daleksza/31009Playing#

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Sushi, See you soon & Alone w/Daddy time!


It seems silly to say it's been a busy few weeks. Right?! If I were bored, laying around the house, wondering what to do with myself I would have blogged sooner... right?! :)

Some of the bigger events of the last couple of weeks:
- Mommy left Daddy & Katherine alone for the first time overnight. (EEEEEEKKKK for Mommy)
- Katherine ate cinnamon apple "puffs" for the first time
- Mommy left Daddy & Katherine alone for the second time for a whole day (into the night) - again eeeeeeekkkkk for Mommy
- Katherine is standing up, while holding onto something, by herself. An occasional fall on her behind happens.
- Katherine ate a piece of plain donut, a cheese ravioli, garlic bread, a black bean, dorito (don't ask), grapefruit and pizza for the first time.

So how did it happen that I left Stephen and Katherine alone for the first time? A client. A big client. I flew out at 6am on 2/16 (Monday) and arrived back home at 11:30am on 2/17 and even though I wanted to go straight to daycare and pick up Katherine so we could go play... I had to go to a 5 hour meeting. Ick. Being a grown up isn't what it's cracked up to be! I even took our webcam and had tested out two computers to make sure that I could see my Nugget before she went to bed and I went to dinner with the client's consultants. I called and called, texted and texed, instant messaged, etc... But alas, Stephen and Katherine didn't get home in time for me to say goodnight. :( It was a very very sad night for me. The first day I went without seeing my little girl. If I said I didn't cry - I'd be fibbing. I was very sad.

I made it through the night and to the next day when I went to pick Katherine up from daycare. She might have been a little mad at me, but she got over it pretty quickly. Thankfully. :)

Last weekend Nicole came over to spend the day with us. Stephen and Nikki wanted to have sushi for dinner. We didn't have sushi ingredients just laying around the house so we needed to go shopping. And where do you shop for sushi ingredients? The Asian grocery store!! Silly!! No one who works in the store speaks English. Or at least no one we could find. Stephen even had some of the ingredients written on a piece of paper in Chinese I think it was... The man looked at him, and the paper and said "no English". So I guess he did know two words. We found most of the ingredients there but Stephen cracked under the pressure of picking sushi grade fish in the fish department where no one spoke English so we headed to Whole Foods. We say this every time we go there, but really, we love that store. Everyone is so nice, helpful and everything there is so fresh!! It was in Whole Foods that Katherine had her first piece of grapefruit. And her second. Nikki thought I was subjecting her to cruel and unusual punishment but a few weeks ago, by chance, we found out that Katherine liked the taste of lemon. I think I had some on my fingers and she bit on my finger, tasted it and then went crazy chewing. So I put a little more on my finger and gave it to her again and she loved it!! She apparently likes sour things. The grapefruit was a HUGE hit. When the first piece started to get a little too squished and was nearing prime choking chunkability I took it away. She screamed! She was NOT pleased. So she was given her 2nd piece of grapefruit. Who would have thought?! Grapefruit eaten, cookie selected (I needed something to eat) and fish purchased, we were on our way home.

Stephen and Nikki then spent the next 2 hours making sushi. I was in charge of peeling the cucumber and slicing it "julian" style... (you know little matchbox like pieces) and making wasabi. All I know about that is that it can't be watery. I think I did well. (See pictures in this week's installment. :)) hehe

While it was a fun day for all, it was also a sad day. Nikki was visiting before leaving to head to Taji, Iraq. When I asked my dear little sister where Taji was she shrugged her shoulders and said, "I don't know." Huh. I think she fibbed. I looked up this Taji place on-line and I must say I'm not pleased. But I take comfort in the fact that she promised she would be safe. (Nikki, I'm holding you to that promise!!!) Poor Mysty (alaskan husky) is heading to FL for another summer. EEEEEKKK We know Tootsie and Pop take very good care of her and she loves it there... but even I melt with the FL heat. :P

My 2nd trip away from my loves came this past week. Head bossman made a request for me and one of my friends (and co-workers) to fly to Chicago for the day. We left again early in the morning, but I was home that night by 9pm. Katherine was in bed by then but at least I was home to peek in on her and get her from her crib the next morning. She was pretty happy to see me. :) I think, anyway!

Katherine is still trying to crawl but hasn't quite gotten the hang of it yet. She gets up on all fours and now is starting to go backwards, which as I recall, is often how it starts. She gets pretty mad when she can't "go". Then falls down onto her belly and rolls to where ever she wants to go. And she's QUICK!!! I moved her 4 times from one area that she kept getting into, that she shouldn't be. By the 3rd time she saw me coming and knew she wasn't supposed to be there. She kicked and squealed - You might have had to be there but it was amusing. As if she looked up and thought "oh poop!! I'm in trouble!!"

Standing is a new thing in the last few weeks. Well, standing on her own. She's been standing since she was a couple months old but now she stands and holds onto the table or loveseat. She can't quite shuffle along the side but she tries. When she does she usually falls over. We get back up, she yells at the table as if to say - why'd you do that - and hangs out again for a few minutes.

This weekend we experienced our first round of pink-eye. At least we think it was pink eye. When we called the pediatrician's office yesterday they asked a few questions and called in a prescription for us. Today (Sunday) her eyes are much better. No redness, no goop, no rubbing. Yay!! We survived. All of us. Now let's hope Stephen and I don't get it!

Nicole left for Taji yesterday and for those that don't know, she's arrived in Qatar today. She'll be there for a day or two before heading to Iraq. 6 months from now she'll be home.

Picture Update:

http://picasaweb.google.com/daleksza/SushiAuntNikkiSGoodbye#

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Alekszas and the Jeffersons


What do we have in common? We moved on up!! Yes, that was cheesy. But so am I. :)

Last week Katherine entered her new classroom. *Drum roll, please* The Waddler Room!!! It is as it sounds. A room of kids between the ages of 7 months and I believe 15-18 months old who are learning to get around. Katherine is currently the youngest member of the class. Which only means one thing: Older Boys. Jacob moved up a few weeks ago and Katherine was very happy to see him again. What Jacob didn't expect, was competition. Within moments of Katherine coming into the classroom for the first time, Ben (new man on the scene) was eyeing her up. Jacob's not sure what to do. Katherine's also been reunited with friend Ava, who she really likes. She's got 4 or 5 new teachers. I feel like a horrible Mother because I can't keep it straight. There are two teachers that work, normally, during the day and then every other day (literally) there's a different teacher there in the evening. MWF seems to be one teacher, T, Th is another. All are very nice and think Katherine's a sweetie. What's not to love, right?

As I thought Katherine started picking up on some of the things the other kids in the classroom were doing. But to my happy surprise it was a good thing that she came home doing - I think it was on the very first day!! She now waves. At everything. Herself, the shelf above her changing table, the TV, the sofa, the fireplace, a chair, the air... you name it. She waves. She doesn't know why she's doing it. Or even when to do it. But she waves. Yay!!! We're trying to teach her now WHEN to wave. She just laughs at me. I think she understands. She's just precocious.

Speaking of precocious. Last update I shared how she was saying mommommommommommom. About that. She'll still say it - however if I say Mom Mom to her she'll say Dad Dad. 15 minutes one day. I kept saying no, mom mom mom. She'd laugh and say Dad Dad Dad Dad. I'm seeing a side of her Daddy coming out. What's up with that??

She is getting to be a pretty excellent hugger!! She puts her arms around your neck and squeezes. She also likes to suck on your neck. I swear, the day I go into work with a hicky and try to explain to everyone that REALLY it's from my DAUGHTER.... Fortunately Stephen and I work together so I'm pretty sure they'll believe me... unless they have heard and believe that story about us on the glass table in our Tinton Falls, NJ conference room, but that's a story for another time. hehehe

With Katherine's entry into a new classroom we thought it only right to take her on a trip to celebrate. Ok. So, really, we just wanted to get away. And you know, when we get away, we try to leave so that no one can reach us. And we've figured out how to do that within driving distance from our house. How excellent is that?!

Last Friday we packed up the truck with our LOADS of "stuff" and headed to the NC mountains. We stay in these cabins that are amazing. They're beautiful!! Amazing kitchens, outdoor hot tubs where you can soak in the jets, stars and the moon. This cabin had a firepit too. Which of course we tried out.

When we go to the mountains we need to not only take clothes, but you also have to take the food you want to eat - or at a minimum figure out what you're going to eat so you can stop at the grocery store on the way in. The nearest grocery store is about 25-30 minutes away. That's an hour round trip. So not quite up the street. And restaurants... not so much so. It's one of the few times Stephen's guanteed a meal a home!! :P Maybe that's secretly why he takes me there?! Huh. And maybe I cook there because there are stainless steel appliances and a solid surface counter top... :P

We drove out on Friday. We left our house at around 9:30am and stopped for breakfast on the way. Actually we stopped several times. The 4.5 hour drive took us about 11 hours. We always say we are going to leave early so we aren't getting to the cabin in the dark and alas, we always arrive after dark. We stopped in Winston Salem at a bakery that makes all of their goodies in an old fashioned brick oven. When we were there they'd just gotten done "heating" the oven. It was too hot so they needed to wait for it to cool down before they could start baking the bread. It was pretty cool! (Or hot, as the case was.) Stephen got some chocolate chip cookies and I some cinnamon rolls. The chocolate chip cookies were the winner between the two.

We walked around Old Salem a bit and enjoyed the little shops and watching some of the people around us. We ended up at the Visitor's Center and the lady in the gift shop was quite a chatty one. :) She told us about her grandchildren, a lady that came in to buy these painted eggs, the kids that all wanted change for a $20, and various other things. As I said, she was a chatter-er. Katherine thought she was pretty funny.

After that we tried to drive straight to Asheville. We stop at the Super-Walmart for the groceries like milk, etc. that we need to get and we always stop to eat at the "Shroon". AKA Work Free Drug Zone. AKA Mellow Mushroom. I love this place. I like eating at the Shroon in Raleigh, but it has NOTHING only the Shroon in Asheville. And when I say this - it has absolutely nothing to do with the food or the menu. It's all about the people watching. It's pretty awesome in Asheville. Where else do you get to see so many hippies in one place?! Bumper stickers above the stove that will have you dropping your jaw. Tights that I have no idea where the ladies even buy them. Hairdos like... well, it's the only place I've ever seen dreadlocks done on (naturally) blonde hair. Excellent people watching. This time was no exception. mmmmm Shroon. Can't wait for it to open in Wake Forest. AmK, I'm still counting on the Krieman's joining us for our inaugural visit. :)

As we drove further and further into the Mountain-ous area cellular phone functionality got dimmer and dimmer. WOOOHOOO We are officially incommunicado. It was quite lovely. The only cell phone that did work, was the Verizon phone. Our Sprint (work) phones only seem to have a connection in the elevator inside our office building, so those phones were gone 90 minutes before we even got to the cabin.

We took the truck to the mountains expecting there to be snow. I'll say again. Mountains. It's February. What would you expect the mountains to be like? I had Katherine bundled up like an eskimo. Alas, no snow. And not even just no snow... It was 60+ degrees one day!! I was quite bummed about that. But Stephen fixed it for us. He turned the A/C down and started the gas fireplace. Weeeeee... back in business. :) It was a beautiful weekend. Saturday we didn't leave the cabin. We were too busy watching DIY and coming up with home improvement projects to work on. Dad, please bring knee pads during your next visit. Better yet, we'll buy them for you and have them ready! :P I know how you like to keep busy so I'm really just trying to help you. Teehee!!

Sunday we did leave the house. Believe it or not I think it was Stephen that started to go stir crazy. He claims he was just too hot, but I think he had a bit of cabin fever. LOL Literally!!! (I crack myself up.) We tried to go for ice cream, but the ice cream store was closed. It's like the shore out there. Winter time everything shuts down - which strikes me as very weird because again - It's the mountains!!! Wouldn't you think you'd get business in the winter? Very confusing. We instead ended up at TCBY, which was probably better for us anyway. We went with the FF variety so we wouldn't feel AS guilty. Stephen shared his vanilla/chocolate twist Katherine. She really likes vanilla ice cream. She'll eat the chocolate in a pinch, but vanilla seemed to be her favorite. (Cookies & Cream seems to be her overall favorite -- Again something provided by Daddy. *sigh*) Every time Stephen would take a spoon of the ice cream out of the container she'd open her mouth to get ready. Sometimes it was for her, sometimes it was for him. She'd yell a little when it wasn't for her. The yell sounded something like "HEY, what about me over here!!??" I didn't share mine with her because it was chocolate and as I said she liked vanilla the best. (That's my story and I'm sticking to it.)

That evening Stephen decided to go out into the yard and use the firepit. He claims he wanted to build a bonfire like they had in high school for football games. You said something like "Oh Brother" or "Oh boy" or "Oh My" to that I hope. He had a shovel, a stack of wood, a pit and some matches. My guy was on a mission. I started to get nervous when he was walking around the yard picking up shovel fulls of leaves, twigs and such and dumping that on the fire. The flames that shot up after that... Impressive. Not bonfire impressive (sorry honey) but impressive never the less. Katherine and I went outside and sat for a little while, but we got cold. (No the fire wasn't keeping us warm because we had to sit opposite of the way the wind was blowing because of the embers that were flying all around... I'm going for MOY!!!!) After that we came inside and watched Stephen/Daddy continue his shovel plight. He made me nervous I tell ya.

Monday we left the cabin around 10:30am and headed home. Our trip home did not involve nearly as many stops however we still didn't get home until around 6:45pm. The good news was by 9pm we were unpacked for the most part and ready to go for Tuesday AM. As my friend Susan said, those years of traveling every week, are still paying off in our ability to come in and get everything put right again!

Today is Valentine's Day and my sweet husband and daughter outdid themselves. 3 dozen roses (I know amazing, right?!) and a pendant and chain. (Tip for other men out there: Order your roses in early January and pick your V-Day date for delivery. You get cheaper roses AND your wife will never know - unless she suggested it to you!!) I'd sent a link to Stephen back in January suggesting he order me flowers for V-Day then. hehehehe He said that's when he ordered them. My power of suggestion is strong. Yay!! I promise to only use it for good, not evil.

Monday I leave bright and early... actually it won't be so bright ... it'll be rather dark at 6am when I head to the airport for my first business trip since Katherine was born. I'd be lying if I said I was looking forward to it. :( I don't wanna go. Can't I just video in? I'd even be okay with the 10lbs heavier look... well, I wouldn't be okay with it, but at least I could be home that night and hug Katherine and Stephen to console my chubby self image on-screen. When I thought I'd be flying back that night and getting in at 1am I was moderately ok with it. Now I'm staying over night - have another crack of dawn flight back. I arrive at around 11:30am and then have a 12pm meeting that goes until 5pm. I had been hoping to go whisk Katherine away from daycare and spend the afternoon playing, but that's not going to happen now. :( Now to figure out how to get the webcam going so I can see Katherine before she goes to bed that night. Must have webcam. I need to see my nugget!!!

Pictures for this installment will be forthcoming. I have to go through them. There are too many right now to post them all. Even I recognize that. :) I'll narrow them down and then post them here.

Pictures posted: http://picasaweb.google.com/daleksza/21409CabinOrBust#